Young halflings often meet their partners at dance halls or festivals. A common way to signal that a relationship has reached a serious, steady stage is to wear colorful handkerchiefs, tied around the wrist or neck. It is a common tradition for couples to plant a tree at the beginning of their courtship, and tend it together until it is full-grown. If they fail it is considered a bad omen. Couples typically spend much time in the company of each other's families, acquainting themselves with their possible future relatives. Marriages are considered big occasions, and all members of the family are expected to attend. Halfling gatherings tend to be quite big, often including distant relatives, and the whole village is usually invited as a courtesy in smaller settlements. The wedding is often held outdoors if the weather allows, or at the local temple. A druid conducts the ceremony, and conveys the blessing of nature. The couple pledges to love and cherish one another. They tie wedding bands to one another's wrists, and then the festivities begin. The newlyweds are showered in flower petals and candy, and are brought to the high seat at the location of the feast. Pastries and small cakes are commonly served at weddings, and the married couple is usually given the first pick. Commonly, everyone attending brings a dish to add to the buffet. The festivities can continue for several days, especially if the spouses' families are of good standing and can afford the hiring of additional cooks and musicians. When a child is born, it is time for friends and family to gather again, albeit under less formal circumstances. They stop by to get a look at the infant and present a small gift, such as clothing or a toy. Children are taught early to help with the family business or household chores. The dead are commonly buried on designated burial mounds. A druid leads the ceremony, and a flower or bush is planted upon the grave as a symbol of the cycle of life and death.